Hi! My name is Bethany! I’ve been involved with youth ministry for over a decade. My husband and I are currently raising three teenagers. As I have watched generations grow and walk away from the church and from our good God, I felt called to help! I have a unique gift. I find it easy to discuss uncomfortable topics like sex, sexuality, porn, cutting, eating disorders and many others in a non-judgemental or condemning way. I want to help you have the hard conversations with your kids! I want to meet your teens on their level and be a biblically grounded, godly woman answering questions for them. I am a safe, trustworthy mentor. You are your teenager’s biggest fan, and I am here to stand with you in this battle against our enemy and the world.

Isaiah 61:1-3

“He has sent me to comfort the broken hearted and to proclaim the captives will be released and prisoners will be freed…He will give a crown of beauty for ashes…festive praise instead of despair…”

FAQ’s

Will you make ME talk about sex with my teens?

  • Nope! I won’t make you do anything right now, but I will give you the confidence to address some of these issues down the road. If you are looking for someone to have those conversations with your teens, I’m willing to do that for you and open the door for growth in your relationships. If you want to do the talking, I have advice and tips and prayer support for you!

What if my teen doesn’t want to talk about it?

  • That’s ok! I would spend time with them building a relationship on trust and respect and non-condemnation. As that progresses, we will be able to talk about the hard things using scripture as a springboard.

What kind of advice do you offer?

The best thing that I offer is space to process. My advice will always point back to Biblical principles and godly choices, but I truly believe Christian teens need to be able to say out loud things like:

  • I definitely have same sex attraction,

  • I already love porn.

  • I’m struggling with a really ugly fetish.

  • What is sex REALLY like?

  • How do I live out my faith dealing with this stuff?

  • Am I a failure?

  • What do I do with the urges I feel?

  • Have I ruined God’s plan for me?

  • Is having a healthy marriage some day hopeless?

  • Does God love me even if I’ve already had sex?